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Mildred Anderson was born in Ashland, Wisconsin in 1911. She lived with her parents on their dairy farm on Lake Superior, Lake View Farm, 34th Avenue East in Ashland, Wisconsin. She was converted on 28 October 1925 and baptized in the Baptist Church on 30 December 1925.
®162 She graduated from Ashland High School on 6 June 1929, worked for a short time at the Style Shop in Ashland, and moved to Bayfield, Wisconsin on 1 August 1929 to work as a stenographer for Mr. Howard W. Elmore of Chicago at his Bayfield Fish Company. She was a boarder weekdays with the Frank Stark family from 1 August 1929 until 3 September 1929 when she moved to board at Mrs. Nettie Wilson’s (the original Knight home at the north east corner of Washington and 3rd Street). She met Ernest La Pointe who operated a boat for the Bayfield Fish Company. On 23 October 1929 he first walked her home. On 11 February 1930 she began working in the office of the Northern Wisconsin Power Company in Bayfield. On 4 August 1930 Ernest proposed and on 6 August 1930 they drove to Duluth, Minnesota to apply for a marriage license. On Wednesday, 13 August 1930, they eloped and were married in Duluth by a Baptist Minister. On 8 September 1930 their marriage was blessed in the Catholic Church and they went to live with his widowed mother Louise LaPointe, and siblings Beatrice and Philip at Roy’s Pointe. 13 December 1930 was her last day of work for the Bayfield Fish Company (which was bankrupt), and on 13 January 1931 she started working for the Bayfield Utility Company. On 27 May 1931 they moved from Louise LaPointe's house to live at his widowed sister Beatrice Stahl's house in Roy's Pointe. On 17 January 1932 they moved to a house on Second Street in Bayfield they rented from Grover Boutin. On 22 September 1932 they moved to a home in Bayfield they rented from Roy Messenger. On 26 September 1932 they bought his first boat, "The Chinook" from the bankrupt Bayfield Fish Company. On 6 December 1932 they moved to board with his brother Fred and Clara LaPointe in Roy’s Pointe. On 17 January 1933 they traded their Ford for a Plymouth. On 3 March 1933 she was laid off at the Northern Wisconsin Power Company (the former Bayfield Utility Company). On 7 May 1933 they had a disagreement with the Fred LaPointes so they moved to Ashland to live with her parents. From 2 November 1933 to 14 November 1933 Ernest worked in Superior, Wisconsin for the Union Construction Company (dredging), and they stayed at the Euclid Hotel. They then lived in Ashland with her mother and father, until Ernest was recalled to Superior on 5 April 1934, when they again moved their furniture to an apartment in the Euclid Hotel. On 9 December 1934 dredging was through for the winter and they returned with their furniture to live with her parents in Ashland. On 25 May 1935 they moved to Harry and Genevieve LaPointe’s house in Roy’s Pointe and Ernest started fishing with the Chinook. On 5 July 1935 Milly started working as a secretary at various times in the office of J. P. O’Malley; then through 1954 she worked for Henry Wachsmuth, Art Fiege, Henry Fiege, Leon McCarty, William Maitland, Bayfield Peninsula Fruit Association, Otto L. Kuehn Company, Pureair Sanatorium, Bayfield Bank, Fred LaPointe's restaurant, Carl Sundquist, the Bayfield City Treasurer, and the Bayfield County Nurse, all in Bayfield. She also served as Bayfield City Clerk. On 3 October 1936 they moved to Bayfield to the carriage house apartment at the home owned by Mr. Elmore at Rice and Front Street. Philip La Pointe lived with them. On 22 September 1937 they rented the Bessie Benton house at 141 North First Street, Bayfield. On 1 May 1941 she started working full time for Henry Wachsmuth. They bought the Boutin Dock on 3 March 1942, and went into business with his brother Philip as La Pointe Brothers Fisheries, with Milly working as the bookkeeper. On 19 September 1941 they bought the house owned by the Clare family at 120 North Second Street, and moved into the house on 23 October. By 23 January 1942 they had sold the Clare house and moved to an upstairs apartment at the corner of Rittenhouse and First Street. On 26 April 1942 they rented the house from Mrs. Bessie Benton at 141 North First Street. They bought their first Boston Terrier "Mitzi" in Washburn on 1 April 1945 (she died on 18 September 1956). On 28 May 1950 she joined the Presbyterian Church in Bayfield. Mrs. Benton retired from teaching and returned to Bayfield in June of 1956, so on 3 June 1956 they moved to the apartment above the Lullabye boat house in Bayfield. On 27 August 1956 they started building their Capp home at 20 Rice Avenue (at North First Street, Bayfield), and on 20 November 1956 they moved into the new house. They sold 20 Rice Avenue to the Holts on 2 October 1960, and rented the Soper home on the north east corner of Sixth Street and Wilson Avenue. From 4 September 1961 to 6 December 1963 they lived in a Rollohome trailer they bought on the south west corner of 6th Street and Wilson Avenue. On 6 December 1963 they moved back to the Benton house at 141 North First Street, which they first rented, and then on 23 February 1971 purchased from Harold J. and Marjorie Benton for $10,000, with a mortgage from the Washburn State Bank of $7,100. On 3 September 1957 Milly succeeded her daughter Yvonne as Secretary to the Administrator of the Bayfield Schools. Later she also became the bookkeeper for the school and Clerk of the School Board for the Bayfield High School and Elementary School where she worked until her retirement on 31 July 1978. She was appointed to the City Planning Commission on 12 May 1971 and served until 7 November 1983. She was on the Architectural Review Board from 19 April 1979 to 7 November 1983. After Ernest's death on 29 February 1988 she lived alone in the family home at 141 North First Street, Bayfield, until Alzheimer's Disease forced her to assisted living at Tender Elder Care in Ashland in June 2001. In 2004 she moved to Northern Lights Health Care Center, 322 Superior Avenue, Washburn, Wisconsin 54891.
Mildred Elaine La Pointe, age 97, of Bayfield, passed away Friday, December 12, 2008, at Northern Lights Health Care Center in Washburn. She was born October 25, 1911, in Ashland, Wisconsin, the daughter of Charles and Ida (Hagstrom) Anderson.
She married Ernest La Pointe August 13, l930; he preceded her in death February 29, 1988. She was also preceded in death by her parents; two sisters, Bernes (Thomas) Butterworth and Inez (Harold) Davis; one brother, Roy (Elsie) Anderson; and one grandson, Keith Moody.
She is survived by two daughters, Yvonne La Pointe (David) Moody and Marilyn La Pointe Winterer; grandsons, John (Courtney) Moody, Joel (Beth Lane) Moody and Ned (Katie) Moody; one granddaughter, Jane Winterer (Galen) Strovers; great-grandchildren, Allison, Joshua, Cameron, Oliver, Sebastian, Claire, Meredith and Emilie; and dear nieces and nephews.
Milly was known for her generous spirit and kindness to family, the community and people she worked with and knew over 70 years in Bayfield. As her memory began to fade, the family is grateful to many friends for watching over her; Karen and Lavern Basina without whom she would not have been able to stay in her home as long as she did; Sharon Hunt and Linda Boyd and others in Bayfield.
When she could no longer be in her home, she was cared for in Ashland at Tender Elder Care/Forest Haven and by her nieces, Joy Westlund and Joan Wilmot. She then moved to Northern Lights Health Care Center in Washburn where she received excellent, personalized care from Lisa, Sandy, Joanne, Nicole and the many other kind nurses, aides and staff.
Shortly after graduating from Ashland High School, Milly moved to Bayfield to work as a stenographer for the Bayfield Fish Company. It was here she met Ernie who was operating a boat for the company and they were married. She also worked for the power company until she and Ernie went into the fishing business in 1932, buying the dock that is now Boutin's Bay Fisheries. In 1957, she became the Bayfield School Secretary and served as Bookkeeper and Clerk of the School Board. She enjoyed working with Superintendent Don Anderson and all the teachers for 21 years.
Milly was a longtime member of the Bayfield Presbyterian Church and was active in the Junior Civic League and Civic League, acting as president several times. She worked in the 1942 flood when she and Eleanor Knight guarded the cemetery which had partially washed away. She was appointed to the City Planning Commission, serving twelve years, and was on the Bayfield Architectural Review Board.
A Memorial Service is planned for December 29th, 2008, 1:00 PM at the Bayfield Presbyterian Church. Visitation at 11:30. A private interment will follow.
In lieu of flowers, please send memorials to the Bayfield Heritage Association, P.O. Box 137, Bayfield, WI 54814, the Bayfield Presbyterian Church, 306 Washington Ave., Bayfield, WI 54814, or Northern Lights Health Care Center Auxiliary, 706 Bratley Ave., Washburn, WI 54891 GPS coordinates of her grave site are Map datum NAD 27 UTM Zone Conus 15 T 0665406 Easting 5186809 Northing.
Eulogy for the Funeral of Mildred LaPointe 29 December 2008 by her grandson, Joel Alan Moody
“As for me, I am one of the five grandchildren of Milly La Pointe. My brothers John and Ned, cousin Jane, and I are all here today to remember her along with our parents and our own families.
I haven’t spent a lot of time in Bayfield over the past 20 years, but for the 20 before that this was a second hometown for me. Countless days and weeks of my childhood, adolescence and young adulthood were spent in this place in the loving care of my grandparents, Millie and Ernie La Pointe.
Grandpa Ernie was an amazing guy, possessing vast knowledge of the great lake and the north woods and machines and tools in a way that was both inspiring and mysterious to a young boy like me. He passed away 20 years ago. I was a young man then living in New York City. I still remember the call about his accidental fall that rainy winter night so long ago.
Grandma Millie was, well, the quintessential grandmother. Right from Central Casting as they say. If you were to look up the word “grandma” in the dictionary, her picture would likely be there. Smiling. Probably holding a tray of cookies right from the oven or something. Or asking if there was something you needed. That was Milly.
I had in my youth always taken for granted who Grandma Milly was. She was always there and, from my vantage point, never changed. It was my wife, Beth, who showed me how unique Milly was. Beth’s grandmothers both lived in apartments on Lake Shore Drive in Chicago. They were wonderful ladies, but neither fit the bill of the stereotypical grandmother.
For Beth, Milly was that grandma-a woman of unmatched caring and kindness and desire to give, living in a small house with a wraparound porch in a picturesque little town by a lake. Beth never met Grandpa Ernie-she missed doing so at my parents house by a few days over the holidays in 1987-but she adopted Milly as her third grandma and loved her as her own.
For me, many things about Grandma Milly stand out in my memory. One is her devotion to Grandpa Ernie. I’ll leave stories of their courtship and early married years to my elders, but it was clear to my young eyes many years later that there was a true love between them. Grandma Milly took care of Grandpa Ernie when he was home and fretted about him when he was away. His death was devastating to her, but even after that she cherished his memory every single day.
Another thing I remember about Grandma Milly is her love of Bayfield. This was her home for so long, and she had immense pride in the place. That was evident in her service to the community through the architectural review board, the historical society, the school district and the Presbyterian Church. To me it also showed in her desire to show off the sights, whether it be the old iron bridge, the apple orchards, or the fish docks. One of Grandma’s routines was to drive the length of Rittenhouse Avenue-”Buzz the Main” she called it-every time we drove into Bayfield from out of town. She said this was to see what was going on, but I think to her it was a way of reaffirming her sense of the town and her place in it.
Now when I go to new places, or simply to my own town, I always “Buzz the Main”. Grandma Milly also left other marks on me. One is a shared love of coffee. Grandma always had a pot on the stove-usually her favorite recipe known as “Swedish Gas”- and a cup in her hand. She introduced me to coffee as a teenager and I’ve been hooked ever since. And when people tell me that coffee isn’t good for me, I always refer them to Grandma Milly’s long life as proof that it is.
She also taught me to make apple pie. So well in fact that my recreation of her recipe won the Pelham, New York, Centennial pie baking contest in 1996. All the little old ladies in Pelham were amazed that this young male newcomer from the Midwest had bested them, but little did they know that I had a little old grandma in Bayfield, Wisconsin, showing me the way.
Grandma Milly is the last of my four grandparents to pass away. I will truly miss her, as will we all. But I take comfort in knowing that Grandma Milly lived a long and wonderful life in a beautiful part of the world surrounded by friends and family who loved her for the caring and kind and generous and devoted person that she was. Measured in this way that really matters, Milly lived a rich and fulfilling 97 years.
And so I say good-bye to my grandma. I have but one request for those of you who came here to remember Millie this afternoon. The next time you find yourself driving into Bayfield from someplace down the road, make sure to “Buzz the Main” one time for Millie La Pointe.”
Misc. Notes
Was Ernest LaPointe involved in a paternity suit? Ernest LaPointe-father, Ruby Henkel-mother, Ellen LaPointe-daughter, age 78 in 2009, son Dean E. Paulcheck, 9135 Marissa Trail, Wonder Lake, Illinois age 55-59 and Barbara E. Paulcheck nee Leisch, 61 815-728-9135, cell 815-355-0176
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